Last month I was overwhelmed and frustrated at work, and was convicted I wasn’t doing a good job shining my light for Christ. I’ve been praying God would give me the strength to be the light for him in what can be a dark place. It’s a focus of mine for 2022. In this first week back at work, God gave me many opportunities!
My first conversation was with “Luke.” Luke is in his twenties and is struggling with finding his place in this world. He is an intelligent young man with a bright future. The problem is, his parents have very high expectations for him. He has a masters in chemistry, but they feel he should get a PhD, an MD, or a JD. A masters isn’t good enough, in their opinion, even though he has no desire to continue his schooling. My heart goes out to this young man. I explained to him his value doesn’t come from his parents’ opinion. He has inherent value as a child of God. We talked for quite a while, and he apologized for taking me away from my work. I told him that was probably the most important conversation I’d have all day.
Later in the week, “Mitch” came to speak with me. He was concerned with some statements his boss had made, and was afraid he was losing his boss’s trust. He wasn’t looking for advice, but needed someone to confide in.
The next day, “Marc” visited my office. He was having trouble with a coworker he felt was being condescending to him. He said “You’ve been working with people for a long time; how do you deal with people like that?” (This is Marc’s first job). I smiled and told him a story of a previous coworker, “Gary.” Gary is bright, ambitious, and arrogant. He was quite successful, so his arrogance was seemingly justified. It didn’t make him particularly popular. I struggled with negative feelings toward him, so I prayed. I prayed God would change my attitude toward him, and I prayed God would bless him. God turned my attitude completely around. One day another colleague was complaining about Gary, and I said he didn’t bother me. The other coworker said “then you’re the only one!” Those prayers clearly made a difference in how I viewed Gary. Later, as our company was getting taken over and everyone was stressed about losing their jobs, Gary came to my office and said he needed to be in a place where there was positive energy. God took that negative interaction and turned it into a positive relationship. The prayers not only affected me, but Gary took notice as well.
I told Marc that story to show him the power of prayer. I also told him his coworker simply had a confident personality, and in his case, his condescending behavior was unintentional.
I love writing, and I often wish I could spend more time doing so, since I feel it is my ministry. I was blessed to have time off over Christmas and enjoyed the extra time to write, so it was difficult to go back to the “daily grind.” My day job takes a lot of time, but if I spent all day writing, I wouldn’t interact with any of those people. None of my coworkers are likely to read Christian fiction, and few of them attend church. God put me in that job for a reason. It was such a blessing for Him to make it abundantly clear to me the reason! God puts people into all of our lives. We never know what seeds we may sow. It could be a simple pleasant word to an overworked cashier or a hug for someone who feels alone. Investing in other’s lives is the best investment we can make.
We don’t all have to be pastors or teachers or work in a Christian profession. All of us come into contact with others, and many of the people we meet may not know the Lord. A quote commonly attributed to St. Francis of Assisi is “Preach the gospel where ever you can; when all else fails, use words.” If we live our lives in such a way that others see a difference in us, they may ask us what that difference is.
1 Peter 3:15 says “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.”
I challenge you today: pray God would give you opportunities in your everyday interactions to preach the gospel, both in the way you live your life and using words. The only thing we can take with us to heaven is other people, so let’s try to take as many as we can!
Dear Heavenly Father, Thank You for surrounding us with other people. Some of them bless us, and some of them help sharpen our character. Please help us to see them all as your children and please help us to make the most of our interactions so that they may see You in our lives and desire to know You more. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Karen
I enjoyed your short story this week and it was some good advice. Your gift from God is in writing but also ministry your faith to others too.
You are right in saying about sowing seeds, we may never know the outcome but at least we started something. It is sometimes hard for me to know what all to say to someone who may not have their faith where mine is. I just say a prayer 🙏 and let the spirit lead me. It is true , as you wrote to bring others to Christ. I pray that God would help me to do that in the coming year.
If we all let the Christ light inside of us beam on the outside and show God’s love to everyone then we are showing others the difference God is making on our own lives. I pray that God will be with us all in this week and let us be his light and let it shine ✨ brightly in all the opportunities that come our way. Praise and glory all to our Lord Jesus Christ.
What a beautiful sentiment. Thank you for sharing this. It sounds like you’re truly stepping out in faith. What better to do when we don’t know what to say than to “say a prayer and let the spirit lead” you? Isn’t that exactly what God tells us to do? I’m sure you are a blessing to all around you!
A phrase shared often at our church is, “All of life is all for Jesus.” We’re all in full-time ministry wherever Jesus has us at work, home, school, community … . Thanks for showcasing that in your life and with us!
I like that! It’s great to know God can use us no matter where we are in life. All we need to do is be willing!
Thank you for sharing. I’m now 76. I moved as my son requested so “he could take care of me better”. Well he barely checked on me thru many old people circumstances. Now he has moved to Puerto Rico with his family to avoid taxes with his company. I love to do what you are doing. God had opened a few doors to witness. It’s all I can do now. Thanks for the encouragement. It’s so much more pleasant to give than receive
I’m so sorry to hear your family isn’t nearby or as supportive as they should be. That is difficult. I’ll pray God will raise up for you some good friends to come alongside you. I’m glad God has given you opportunities to witness for Him. It doesn’t matter how old you are – God will keep using you as long as you let HIm!
Its awsome because this mornings preaching was all about opportunities God Gives us to shine for his glory, whether Its from the flesh or spiritual opportunities, we have many opportunities to serve God & to serve people. This caught my attention because Its awsome when 2 or more things confirm each other. praise God
It’s amazing how often God does that! I wonder if it’s because so often we need to hear things more than once before they sink in. 🙂 Take every opportunity you can to shine for Him!